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We all know what the pink ribbon stands for and many women battle it & be a winner while others don’t. We see it advertised everywhere. But can you tell me about this pink and blue ribbon? We don’t see it advertised anywhere.

October is Miscarriage Awareness Month and it happens more often than people realise and believe people need to talk about it more.

I have been thinking about my angel baby a lot lately. My child that I never got a chance to hold. He/she who should be born this October.
One day I know I will get to see my little again when the time is right.
When you dream of something so long, and it s taken from you in the blink of an eye, it hurts. But i m strong, and not giving up.

385053_474920075862033_1158808596_n1 This month, we remember all the babies born sleeping.
Those we have carried but never met.
Those we have held but could not take home.
The ones that came home but could not stay.
Help break the silence, help remember our angels.

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56 Comments Add yours

  1. Am so sorry for your loss *bigHUGS*

    1. cerita4musim says:

      auwwww meluknya jgn kenceng2, sesek napas nih :))) Txss bebskii..

  2. ndutyke says:

    Ahhh my baby was supposed to be born around October 2010 😊 but hopefully we’ll meet in HIS jannah, one day.

  3. rintadita says:

    😦 *peluk mba Feby*

    1. cerita4musim says:

      ahh tengkiessss rinta 🙂

  4. Puji says:

    Hugs. Be (always) strong mba :*

    1. cerita4musim says:

      It makes me even stronger 🙂 thanks for your wonderful virtual hugs! 🙂

  5. joeyz14 says:

    Big hug for you mba Fe 🙂

    1. cerita4musim says:

      Yaaayy ! Thankss Jo!! Should be great to get ur carrot cake too :))

  6. Christa says:

    be strong and always have faith! praying for you and all the strong women out there 🙂

    1. cerita4musim says:

      such a powerful message Christa…thank you ! 🙂

  7. Clarissa Mey says:

    😦 bighugss kak Fe.. so sorry for your lost..
    be strong always and God set the better plan for you 🙂

    1. cerita4musim says:

      Thanks Mey, it happened in the past, i m moving on for sure 🙂

  8. evy doloksks says:

    and now you make me cry mam !
    a quote says : don’t lose hope. you never know what tomorrow will bring
    I say : don’t ever lose hope for you know to whom you’ve put your hopes in
    have faith, dear 🙂

    1. cerita4musim says:

      Auwwww….I m fine darling, it happened in the past, i m certainly moving on for a new laughter and joy ! 🙂
      Hey, hv a great weekend for u !

  9. Dian Rustya says:

    Baru tahu soal ini 😦
    #PelukMbakFebby

    1. cerita4musim says:

      Sudah kejadian beberapa bulan yang lalu Di, i m fine and moving on now 🙂
      Makasih yah…xx

  10. citramanica says:

    Sorry for your lost… Keep the faith!

    1. cerita4musim says:

      I ll surely do ! Thanks a bunch Cit ! 🙂

  11. Lorraine says:

    Didn’t know that October is pregnancy & infant loss awareness month.

    Big hug Feb & sending love for the little one above.

    1. cerita4musim says:

      Every October 15th of the year mbak, all the women who ever lost their children or miscarriage should nyalain lilin at 19:00 to remember their beloved 🙂
      Txs for ur virtual hugs, that s sweet 🙂

  12. Peluk Mbak Fe… Be strong ya mbak…

    1. cerita4musim says:

      Thanks Shinta, it happened a couple of months ago and i m moving on 🙂
      Hv a great weekend yooo…

      1. Semua pasti indah pada waktuNya ya mbak fe 😀 Thx, you too :*

  13. zilko says:

    I just knew about this. Big condolences, and be strong!! 🙂

    1. cerita4musim says:

      Stronger than evaaa haahha Tengkiess Ko!! 🙂

  14. Semangat mba feby *big hug

    1. cerita4musim says:

      Makin semangat nihhh malah xixiix makasih ya, It means a lot !! 🙂

  15. I’m truly sorry for your lost😔 I hope time has healed you well.. And may you be blessed with more joy, love, and happiness😃

  16. Gaareal says:

    So sorry for your loss, I had live birth twins at 20 weeks along, they were in this world for a couple of hours. I know how you feel but I am sure he/she is waiting for you up there. HUGS!! Will definitely light up some candles.

    1. cerita4musim says:

      When i feel like i m the only one in this world who get such an unfair treatment, then i have to read your comment, it feels like a punch in my face. I just don’t wanna in your position, i can’t stand it no more i believe.
      Thank you for such a delightful message.

  17. Be strong😘😘😘 tetap semangat

    1. cerita4musim says:

      Ik zal het doen mbak yang 🙂 dankjee!

  18. Fascha says:

    Feel you mbak,,, *hug hug*

  19. ohdearria says:

    So sorry for your lost Feb, sending you strength and hugs from here. xx

    1. cerita4musim says:

      It s a pleasant to receive your hugs Mbak Ri ! 🙂

  20. aw..Feb, sorry to hear about your lost. But I’m glad to hear that you are bouncing back. Sending tonnes of love and positive thinking. *hugs sepertinya ini group hug yah dari semua orang yang comment.

    1. cerita4musim says:

      delightful to receive those positive energy from you. sending you back my hugs!

  21. Duh baru kebaca postingan ini. So sorry for your lost mbak Feb. He/she must be happy there and send you lots of love from above. Semangaaaaat mbak Fe.. Sini sini peluk-pelukan.. Abis itu kutraktir tiramisu deeh :*

    1. cerita4musim says:

      xixixixi gapapa Nggi, makasih yah. Miscarriage nya udah bbrp bulan lalu sebelum traveling2 kemarin yg lumayan lama. Cmn krn bulan ini bulan Oktober keingetan krn mesti nya due nya bulan ini 🙂

  22. shintadaniel says:

    Feeeeeeb, i’m so sorry for your loss, so sad to hear that *big hugs. Wherever she/he is right now, i’m sure he/she’s in beautiful place, safe and warm. He/she already be in our Libra community with me and mas Baron, huuyeeaa 🙂

    1. cerita4musim says:

      ah iya yaaa mestinya Libra jg tuh ya kayak elu, baby horse nya kayak gw, too bad the angel thinks he/she is too good for the world 🙂
      Makasih ya mak, i m moving on kok…:)

      1. shintadaniel says:

        Salam dr mb. Marita, dia mw contact elo gatau nomernya..

  23. sondangrp says:

    hallo Feby, salam kenal. Aku Sondang. Aku buka linknya dari reader tyke dan aku langsung mewek baca ini very early in the morning. Hiks. Anakku skrg 3, paling besar Ephraim, tapi sampe sekarang kami menganggapnya anak kedua karena anak pertamaku keguguran. Meski belum sampe 3 bulan, meski orang bilang itu belum ada rohnya, masih belum ‘ada’ dsb dst, he (oh iya I believe he’s a boy) menurutku dia sudah ada sejak aku liat strip positif dan usg kantung hamil. Udah didoain-dimimpiin-dsb. Bahkan nama Ephraim itu anak Yusuf yang kedua, makanya kami pilih nama itu juga. Aduh feb aku jd kepikiran mau bikin psotingan ini, aku belum pernah me let go soal ini dalam bentuk tulisan. Sampe sekarang, setiap denger ada yang keguguran, aku bisa langsung mewek di tempat. Bulan lalu bosku cerita santai soal kegugurannya, dan aku yg nangis sesegukan gitu phew.
    Stay strong ya Feb. Gak ada kalimat yang bisa nenangkan mungkin ya, tapi ya akana da waktunya kita berkumpul semua lagi kan. Hugs. *belum kenal tapi di perkenelan pertama aku kasih hug ya, first time for me doing sok ikrib like this *.

    1. cerita4musim says:

      Hallo Sondang, salam kenal juga. Terima kasih feedback dan sharing nya, it means a lot. I believe my kid is a boy too, my feeling said so 🙂
      Kesedihan rasanya lumrah ya, mungkin lebih tepatnya kecewa. Namanya juga pengharapan akan sesuatu yg ditunggu2, ketika hadir malah diambil kembali as easy as that. But u know what, one day i woke up and realize that new joy and laughter will arrive soon, and i ll hold that energy to move on 🙂

      oh btw, aku ga bisa follow blog kamu 😦 di protect ya?

      1. sondangrp says:

        Iya Feb aku private emang. Kalau emang berkenan follow, aku minta email nya nanti kuinvite trus kamu approve gitu remfong ya hihi

        1. cerita4musim says:

          ok Ndang, ini ya emailnya : fabiola.lawalata@gmail.com

          c you there ! 🙂

  24. Maureen says:

    Big hugs Feb thank you for sharing this.

    1. cerita4musim says:

      Banyak terima kasih Yen 🙂

  25. Pypy says:

    Tetap terus semangat yah, Fe 😀 *Virtual hugs from here* oooo

    1. Pypy says:

      eh salahh xxxx deng :p

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